How long have you been a STEP?

topic posted Sun, January 25, 2004 - 8:49 AM by  MamaLoca
11 years here.

2 mine, 2 his.
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MamaLoca
  • Re: How long have you been a STEP?

    Sat, December 17, 2005 - 7:25 PM
    I have been a step mom for 5 years. My step-children are 8,10,and 15. My children are 16 and almost 20...I am also going to be a grandma soon...The real issues with being a step-mom isn't so much the children but the ex-wife...
    Shelley
    • Re: How long have you been a STEP?

      Sat, December 17, 2005 - 8:03 PM
      I've "officially" been a step-mom for just over 2 years, but I started parenting the kids 3 1/2 years ago when my husband left his wife for me... yes it sounds nasty and ugly, it wasn't how it sounds. My setp-children are 11, 14, 16 and my husband and I had a daughter together 15 months ago. Like you Shelley, most of my problems are not so much with the kids, but with the ex-wife. She seems to thrive on making my life miserable and putting my husband down at every turn. I think it helps her justify her bad parenting to do this- now she has become a friend to the kids instead of a parent and basically lets them do whatever they want. Lots of fun to deal with when they spend the weekends with us. :)

      All I can say to any and all step-parents is "hang on, it's quite a ride"- good and bad.

      Happy Holidays everyone!

      Rhonda

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